Understanding the Challenging Behavior

The overwhelmed mom has twin three-year-olds and a newborn. The twins have been through multiple transitions, including living with their grandmother, having their dad deployed, and the arrival of a new brother. The daughter twin screams constantly while the son twin refuses to listen and intentionally does things he knows he shouldn't. The mother feels at a loss and overwhelmed. It is explained that these behaviors are typical ways children process their feelings, either through acting out like the daughter or displaying defiance like the son. Understanding these behaviors as signs of emotional processing is crucial in effectively responding.