Playing With Fire 17 Sexual Fantasies
Feb 14, 2021
Exploring the thrill of sexual fantasies, the discussion dives into the challenges of sharing desires with partners. Vulnerability and jealousy take center stage, emphasizing the need for open communication in non-monogamous relationships. Listeners learn how to navigate privacy versus secrecy, while personal journeys highlight the importance of education in embracing sexuality. Trust and safe communication are essential for fostering a judgment-free space, transforming fantasy sharing into a fulfilling aspect of intimacy.
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Erotic Energy and Monogamy
- Ken realized that focusing all erotic energy on one partner made even internal fantasies feel like a violation.
- Expanding beyond that allowed him to view fantasies as something to discuss, not hide.
Privacy vs. Secrecy
- Early in their relationship, Jolie and Ken had different assumptions about sharing sexual fantasies.
- Jolie felt Ken's private fantasies were secret withholding, impacting their relationship despite Ken's politeness.
Working with Jealousy
- Invite jealousy in a neutral way, exploring its effects rather than avoiding it.
- Approach it with curiosity and work with it, as Jolie and Ken did.