We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson “I Was Crying In The Shower!” | We're Talking Strictly Come Dancing
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Sep 18, 2025 Karen Hauer, a long-serving professional from Strictly Come Dancing, shares her candid experiences, including dancing with her ex, Kevin Clifton, post-breakup. She discusses the complexities of the 'Strictly Curse' and how emotional connections form amidst intense pressure. Oti Mabuse reveals her vulnerability and the struggles of representing Black women in the spotlight, even breaking down in the shower during her toughest moments. Ashley Roberts reflects on dancing as a poignant tribute to her late father, highlighting the personal connections that dance embodies.
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Why The 'Strictly Curse' Happens
- The 'Strictly curse' arises from intense proximity, shared goals, and emotional exposure that accelerate bonds.
- Paul C. Brunson links this to psychological effects like mere exposure and propinquity making attachments more likely.
Crying In The Shower During Pressure
- Oti Mabuse recounts collapsing emotionally during training and crying fully clothed in the shower from career pressure.
- Her partner Mars entered the shower clothed and comforted her, reminding her of priorities beyond the show.
Separate Performance From Real Emotion
- When teaching, Karen Hauer focuses on learning the person inside out to tailor coaching and maintain professional boundaries.
- She warns dancers not to confuse performance intimacy with real romantic intent and to treat the show as acting.