PsycHacks Episode 145: The game of small talk
Apr 26, 2022
Small talk can often feel tedious, but it’s compared to the game Wordle in a unique way. The speaker shares insights on how to navigate these conversations strategically. By treating small talk like a game, you can fast-track to deeper, more meaningful exchanges. Discover how finding shared interests can elevate your interactions. Transform ordinary chit-chat into rich dialogues with generous communication and engagement.
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Small Talk Has A Purpose
- Small talk is a necessary step toward authentic conversation.
- Dr. Orion Taraban says the goal is to get out of small talk quickly.
Small Talk Is A Game Like Wordle
- Approach small talk like a solvable game that gives feedback.
- Dr. Orion Taraban uses Wordle to show how feedback guides discovery.
Assume A Shared Interest
- Assume you share an authentic interest and search for it.
- Limit exploration to about six exchanges to guide efficient discovery.