

How To Date: The first date
15 snips Feb 17, 2025
Special guest Ryan Lanji, a cultural producer and winner of Netflix’s Big Flower Fight, dives into the exhilarating art of first dates. He shares hilarious personal stories and invaluable tips for navigating that nerve-wracking experience. The conversation explores the emotional rollercoaster of dating, focusing on the importance of authenticity, communication, and setting boundaries. Ryan also sheds light on queer dating dynamics, emphasizing the value of self-worth and support systems in forming meaningful connections.
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Business Coaching Date
- Mel Schilling overanalyzed a date's business, acting like a coach.
- This kept the date at arm's length and prevented vulnerability.
The Fall
- Elizabeth Day fell over on a first date, spilling everything.
- She styled it out, and the man is now her husband.
Chemistry Not Essential
- Mel Schilling observed that immediate chemistry isn't essential.
- She advises getting curious before dismissing a potential partner.