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How To Fail With Elizabeth Day

How To Date: The first date

Feb 17, 2025
Special guest Ryan Lanji, a cultural producer and winner of Netflix’s Big Flower Fight, dives into the exhilarating art of first dates. He shares hilarious personal stories and invaluable tips for navigating that nerve-wracking experience. The conversation explores the emotional rollercoaster of dating, focusing on the importance of authenticity, communication, and setting boundaries. Ryan also sheds light on queer dating dynamics, emphasizing the value of self-worth and support systems in forming meaningful connections.
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  • Preparation for a first date involves effective communication and mental readiness to enhance confidence and enjoyment during the experience.
  • Managing expectations is crucial in dating, as discrepancies between what we anticipate and reality can lead to discomfort and stress.

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First Date Essentials

The podcast delves into the importance of preparation for a first date, emphasizing communication planning and the mental mindset one should adopt. It highlights that effective communication is key, not only in discussions with the date but also in self-reflection prior to the meeting. Guests share various techniques such as setting time limits to create a comfortable environment, feeling secure, and even having a friend on standby for support. This preparation helps individuals feel more at ease, enabling them to focus on enjoying the experience rather than feeling overwhelmed.

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