Are you worried about how engaged your child is in school and their learning? You’re not alone. In this episode of The Self-Driven Child Podcast, I sit down with two powerhouse guests—Rebecca Winthrop and Jenny Anderson—authors of the book The Disengaged Teen: Helping Kids Learn Better, Feel Better, and Live Better. Together, we dive into the alarming trends of disengagement among kids as they transition from tots to teens and why so many high schoolers feel disconnected from their education.
Rebecca and Jenny share their personal experiences, surprising research findings, and practical strategies that empower kids to take charge of their learning. We discuss the crucial role of agency in fostering curiosity and resilience, why high achievement doesn’t have to come at the expense of mental health, and how even "problem kids" can thrive when they find their spark. This is Part 1 of our conversation, and you won’t want to miss it.
Episode Highlights:
[0:50] - Introduction: Why teen disengagement should concern us all.
[2:00] - Meet Rebecca and Jenny: Their unique journeys into education and child development.
[10:13] - The shocking statistics on student engagement: Why it plummets after third grade.
[18:24] - Agency and engagement: The secret sauce for learning success.
[21:23] - Four modes of student engagement: Passenger, achiever, resistor, and explorer.
[28:11] - The neuroscience of nagging: Why it shuts down problem-solving in teens.
[32:31] - The primal need for respect: How it shapes teen development and parent relationships.
Links & Resources:
Rebecca and Jenny's book: The Disengaged Teen: Helping Kids Learn Better, Feel Better, and Live Better
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