How To Fail With Elizabeth Day How To Date: The most important relationship you’ll ever have
Mar 24, 2025
The hosts dive deep into the fundamental relationship we have with ourselves. They explore self-awareness, self-love, and the importance of recognizing personal worth in nurturing connections with others. A hilarious dinner with their husbands adds a light-hearted touch, revealing insights about partnerships. They tackle challenges like heartbreak and societal pressures, emphasizing emotional interdependence. Ultimately, the conversation celebrates personal growth and offers practical tools for cultivating healthy romantic relationships.
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Control What You Can
- You can only truly control yourself in a relationship, so focus on self-worth and acceptance first.
- Affirmations, acceptance of flaws, and honest conversation rebuild your baseline self-esteem.
Rebuild Self-Worth Practically
- Use affirmations and acceptance practices to rebuild self-worth after rejection or heartbreak.
- Try journaling or voice-note journaling to explore feelings and uncover hidden vulnerabilities.
Shame Loses Power When Shared
- Shame thrives in silence; bringing vulnerable parts into the light reduces their power.
- Humor and trusted friends help externalize and learn from recurring relationship patterns.