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"Never Enough: When Achievement Culture Becomes Toxic-and What We Can Do About It" by Jennifer Breheny Wallace

Oct 27, 2023
15:16
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Jennifer Breheny Wallace, author of the definitive book on toxic achievement culture, discusses the impact on mental health and importance of self-care in parenting. She emphasizes the significance of mattering for youth mental health and the importance of recognizing value and prioritizing well-being in parenting. Wallace also highlights the power of deep and supportive relationships for fostering interdependence and a sense of mattering.
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  • Mattering is a crucial concept for protecting youth mental health, reassuring them that simply being themselves is enough, regardless of external pressures.
  • Parents play a crucial role in fostering mattering in their children by ensuring unconditional love and prioritizing their own psychological health to better attune to their children's emotional cues.

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The Importance of Mattering for Youth Mental Health

In this podcast episode, Jennifer Brihany Wallace discusses the concept of mattering and its impact on youth mental health. Mattering refers to the personal belief that we are valued for who we are, away from external achievements. Research has found that people who feel valued and are dependent on to add meaningful value to others are more likely to thrive in adolescence and adulthood. However, today we are facing a mattering deficit, which negatively affects youth mental health. Mattering offers a framework for protecting youth mental health by meeting their deep universal need to feel seen, cared for, and valued by those around them. It reassures them that simply being themselves is enough, regardless of external pressures.

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