Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda Episode 034: Why Guys Don't Ask Girls Out
Oct 13, 2019
Dive into the dynamics of modern dating as hosts tackle why guys hesitate to ask girls out. Their humorous banter reveals cultural influences and the pressure men face in romance. Discover the importance of clear communication strategies, with insights on sincerity in dating approaches. The conversation also emphasizes personal growth and fulfillment beyond romantic interests, encouraging self-reflection and meaningful friendships. It's a blend of laughter and valuable advice for navigating the complexities of love.
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Porn Replaces Desire For Real Intimacy
- Pornography and digital substitutes reduce appetite for real intimacy and make asking someone out feel unnecessary.
- Jonathan Pokluda argues this creates a lost taste for real relationships and damages future marriage capacity.
Apps Lower Effort But Raise Ambiguity
- Dating apps and the digital era lower the effort required to connect but raise ambiguity and lower real-life social skills.
- Nate Hilgenkamp and Jonathan Pokluda note apps plus culture make face-to-face asking a lost skill and more frightening.
Photo On A Dating App Mishap
- Nate Hilgenkamp recounts his photo ending up on a dating app and jokingly promoting Coffee Meets Bagel.
- The story highlights how dating apps and profile images circulate unexpectedly online.
