Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 165 - Polyamory Finishing School
Apr 3, 2018
Dive into the world of polyamory with practical tips for newcomers! Learn essential etiquette for meetups, from fostering respect to effective communication. Discover strategies for discreet interactions and the significance of consent in social settings. The hosts explore navigating hurt feelings and promote open dialogue for genuine connections. Emphasis is placed on making friends rather than seeking romantic ties, ensuring a welcoming atmosphere for all. Join a vibrant community while enhancing your polyamorous journey!
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Ask Consent Before Touching
- Always ask for consent before any physical contact at meetups.\n- Even a simple "Would you like a hug?" shows respect and safety awareness.
Use Signals for Partner Check-Ins
- Use secret signals or code words with your partner for check-ins during meetups.\n- This helps you support each other and manage discomfort or overwhelm easily.
Apologize Without Defensiveness
- If you unintentionally hurt someone at a meetup, apologize and acknowledge their feelings.\n- Avoid defending yourself immediately; listen to understand rather than fix.