Love Life With Matthew Hussey (Matt Monday): How to Stop Obsessing in Early Dating
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Nov 11, 2024 Navigating the early dating phase can stir intense emotions and obsessive thoughts. Discover practical strategies to curb that urge and maintain your self-worth. Learn how to assess potential partners realistically while identifying personal deal-breakers. Embrace your inner value amid life’s uncertainties, finding empowerment in self-awareness rather than external validation. With five actionable tips, you can enjoy dating without getting lost in anxiety.
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Halo Effect
- The 'halo effect' makes us infer positive qualities based on initial good impressions.
- This can lead to false perceptions in dating, so be cautious.
Don't Maximize Superficial Qualities
- Don't prioritize looks, money, or lifestyle too much in dating.
- Focus on a baseline of needs instead of maximizing a few qualities.
Lose the Urgency
- Avoid urgency in dating; it hinders proper assessment.
- Don't rush into decisions based on initial excitement or fear of missing out.
