Encouraging Independence Through Struggle

Fostering independence in children requires allowing them to encounter and navigate challenges on their own. It is vital to resist the temptation to provide immediate answers, as this undermines their ability to learn and grow. Citing philosopher John Stuart Mill’s childhood experience, the importance of allowing children to struggle before coming to their aid highlights that true learning often stems from trial and error. By holding back some solutions, parents can instill a sense of self-reliance and resilience in their children, ultimately helping them believe in their own capabilities.