Dive into the emotional impact of the Ukraine conflict on intimacy and relationships. Discover how couples navigate intimacy amidst trauma, stress, and grief, especially those reunited after deployment. Explore the concept of emotional sharing as a healing tool and learn about the 'dimmer switch' approach for reconnecting. Gain insights on communication strategies that foster deeper connections, even during turbulent times. The dialogue emphasizes that love and understanding remain vital, even in the shadow of war.
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Sexual Discrepancy in War
Discrepancy in sexual desire is common among couples affected by war.
This is due to differing experiences and coping mechanisms.
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Normalizing Discrepancy
Normalize the discrepancy, neither partner is wrong.
Acknowledge and understand each other's positions without blame.
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Communicating Emotional Capacity
Soldiers should acknowledge their partners' needs for emotional connection.
Openly communicate about their current emotional capacity.
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In this episode, we explore the psychological and emotional effects of the ongoing Ukraine conflict on sexual intimacy for both those directly affected by the war and those living in its shadow. George recently visited Ukraine and heard first hand the issues couples are experiencing, thus inspiring today's show. Join us as we delve into some challenges couples face in war-torn regions and the sexual discrepancies that can arise during times of unrest. Laurie and George examine the emotional toll the war has taken on intimacy, from changes in desire and communication to the impacts of PTSD, stress, and grief on partners. While war in other parts of the world might seem distant for some of our listeners, we are all touched by global conflicts, traumatic events, natural disasters or even careers as first responders. Here we consider how partners navigate physical and emotional closeness when faced with uncertainty, loss, and fear. The episode offers great insights on ways couples and individuals can navigate intimacy in challenging times, with expert advice on maintaining connection and emotional support in the face of ongoing trauma and instability. The power of connection and relationship can create resiliency during difficult times and this episode asks the question: does sex still matter while there is a war going on?
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