The 1000 Hours Outside Podcast 1KHO 569: The Words That Build a Child | Amy Hughes, Words Like Honey
Sep 10, 2025
Join Amy Hughes, a mother of nine and author known as Simple Little Amy, as she dives into the power of words in shaping childhood. She shares how small changes in language can significantly impact kids' emotions and confidence. Learn about creating safe spaces for connection, the importance of sincere apologies, and effective communication strategies. Amy offers practical tips for fostering autonomy in children while maintaining a nurturing environment, making this a heartfelt discussion for parents seeking to enhance their family's emotional health.
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Ordinary Words Have Large Impact
- Common, offhand phrases shape children’s understanding far more than parents realize.
- Amy Hughes argues we must consider child development and neuroscience when we speak to kids.
Joke Misinterpreted As Truth
- Amy recounts her daughter believing her husband 'stole' because a joking comment at age six was taken literally.
- That misunderstanding lasted seven years and revealed how literally kids interpret jokes.
Ditch Threats; Build Connection
- Avoid threats and ultimatums because they teach obedience from fear, not internal growth.
- Connect first and explain expectations to create lasting behavioral change.
