Fixable How to give and receive good advice (w/ Hola Papi’s John Paul Brammer)
Jun 24, 2024
Writer John Paul Brammer from the advice column Hola Papi discusses what makes good advice, common problem solutions, and how to navigate tricky situations on the podcast. The episode explores the evolution of advice columns, embracing vulnerability for positive outcomes, and the power of storytelling.
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Hola Papi's Origin
- John Paul Brammer's "Hola Papi" column began as satire on Grindr.
- It evolved into earnest advice as heartfelt letters from diverse, often marginalized communities poured in.
Authenticity in Advice
- "Hola Papi" stands out for its vulnerable, relatable tone, unlike traditional advice columns.
- Brammer shares his uncertainties and learns alongside readers, fostering connection.
Informal Mentorship
- Growing up in rural Oklahoma, Brammer lacked LGBTQ+ resources and relied on informal mentorship.
- This experience shapes his approachable, conversational style in "Hola Papi."