Writer John Paul Brammer from the advice column Hola Papi discusses what makes good advice, common problem solutions, and how to navigate tricky situations on the podcast. The episode explores the evolution of advice columns, embracing vulnerability for positive outcomes, and the power of storytelling.
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Hola Papi's Origin
John Paul Brammer's "Hola Papi" column began as satire on Grindr.
It evolved into earnest advice as heartfelt letters from diverse, often marginalized communities poured in.
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Authenticity in Advice
"Hola Papi" stands out for its vulnerable, relatable tone, unlike traditional advice columns.
Brammer shares his uncertainties and learns alongside readers, fostering connection.
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Informal Mentorship
Growing up in rural Oklahoma, Brammer lacked LGBTQ+ resources and relied on informal mentorship.
This experience shapes his approachable, conversational style in "Hola Papi."
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If you listen to Fixable, then maybe you've sometime wished someone would just help you figure out your life. John Paul Brammer’s job is to do exactly that – he’s the writer behind the hit advice column Hola Papi. Today, in an episode from another podcast in the TED Audio Collective, How to Be a Better Human, John talks about how he's helped all kinds of people on topics big and small. John reveals what constitutes good advice, why a lot of problems have similar solutions, and shares what we can do to get ourselves out of our trickiest situations.
How to Be A Better Human isn’t your average self improvement podcast. Each week join comedian Chris Duffy in conversation with guests and past TED speakers as they uncover sharp insights and give clear takeaways on new ways to improve ourselves -- and show up for one another. Get more How to Be A Better Human wherever you get your podcasts.
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