Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther Calling - Do You Love Me for Me or For What I Do for You?
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Apr 7, 2025 Dive into the emotional labyrinth of self-worth and connection in relationships. A Southern preacher grapples with feelings of being 'too much' while seeking authentic love. Explore how childhood experiences shape adult dynamics and the importance of vulnerability in building meaningful connections. These reflections challenge societal expectations and emphasize the need for clear communication of desires. Engage in a moment of self-awareness, addressing inner child wounds and recognizing the significance of care and support.
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Caller's Relationship History
- The caller, a Southern preacher, has been married twice and is now in a non-monogamous but currently monogamous relationship.
- She questions if she's avoiding long-term commitment due to fear.
Reason for Reaching Out
- Esther Perel asks the caller why she reached out now, suggesting the questions about her relationship aren't new.
- The caller expresses curiosity and a desire for self-discovery as reasons for contacting Esther.
Fear of Not Being Enough
- The caller's fear is rooted in feeling "not enough" for others, oscillating between feeling "too much" and "not enough".
- Societal expectations, especially in her role as a female clergy person in the Southern US, contribute to this fear.