The Jefferson Fisher Podcast What to Say to Dismissive Replies
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Nov 26, 2024 Dismissive remarks can chip away at your self-esteem, but there's a way to reclaim your confidence. Discover three effective strategies to respond to these hurtful comments with poise. Learn how to tackle dismissive humor in conversation without being defensive. With insights on setting boundaries and engaging in constructive dialogue, you’ll be equipped to handle any witty jab. Get ready to strengthen your communication skills and protect your self-worth!
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Handling "Just Joking"
- If someone dismisses their rude remark as "just a joke," challenge them to make it funnier.
- Use playful comebacks like "Then work on your material" or "Was that supposed to be funny?"
Taking Ownership of Feelings
- Counter "Don't take it personally" with "I get to decide that."
- Assert your right to feel how you feel and suggest they rephrase if they want a different reaction.
Responding to "Sensitive" Accusations
- Instead of getting defensive when told "Don't be so sensitive," try playing off the word "sense."
- Respond with "I'm sensing [observation about their behavior/comment]" to stay steady and avoid sounding weak.
