Dismissive remarks can chip away at your self-esteem, but there's a way to reclaim your confidence. Discover three effective strategies to respond to these hurtful comments with poise. Learn how to tackle dismissive humor in conversation without being defensive. With insights on setting boundaries and engaging in constructive dialogue, you’ll be equipped to handle any witty jab. Get ready to strengthen your communication skills and protect your self-worth!
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Handling "Just Joking"
If someone dismisses their rude remark as "just a joke," challenge them to make it funnier.
Use playful comebacks like "Then work on your material" or "Was that supposed to be funny?"
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Taking Ownership of Feelings
Counter "Don't take it personally" with "I get to decide that."
Assert your right to feel how you feel and suggest they rephrase if they want a different reaction.
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Responding to "Sensitive" Accusations
Instead of getting defensive when told "Don't be so sensitive," try playing off the word "sense."
Respond with "I'm sensing [observation about their behavior/comment]" to stay steady and avoid sounding weak.
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From communication expert Jefferson Fisher, this book provides immediately actionable strategies and phrases to transform your life and relationships by improving your communication. Fisher, a trial lawyer and leading voice on real-world communication, offers a tried-and-true three-part communication system (Say it with control, Say it with confidence, Say it to connect) that can be applied to any situation. The book teaches how to assert yourself, set boundaries, frame conversations, and overcome conflict with connection, ensuring that your every word has a positive impact on your relationships.
Someone brushes off their rude comments with, “It was just a joke.” Or they tell you, “Don’t take it personally,” or, “You’re too sensitive.”
These comments might seem small. But they can slowly tear down your self-esteem.
The good news? You don’t have to let them shake you.
In this episode, I’m sharing 3 simple ways to respond to dismissive comments.
These strategies will help you protect your self-esteem, stand your ground, and respond to dismissive comments with confidence.
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