Gay Men Going Deeper

Sex and Porn Addiction

Dec 9, 2021

Psychotherapist and Clinical Sexologist, Dr. Joe Kort, discusses sex and porn addiction in the gay community. Topics include defining addiction, compulsion vs. addiction, struggles with intimacy, treatment methods, and supporting oneself. The podcast explores societal pressures, emotional connections, and navigating porn addiction and recovery. Dr. Kort emphasizes the importance of addressing shame, trauma, and fostering healthier relationships with porn consumption.

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Quick takeaways

Focus on understanding underlying reasons for compulsive behaviors instead of labeling them as addiction.

Integrating self-awareness, exploring past experiences, and embracing self-compassion can enhance intimacy and address compulsive sexual behaviors effectively.

Deep dives

Understanding Sex Addiction and the Myth Surrounding It

The term 'sex addiction' is often culturally created and lacks scientific validation according to Dr. Court. He emphasizes educating individuals on the true nature of sexual problems and addiction, rejecting the notion of sex addiction. Dr. Court suggests focusing on the individual's experience, understanding the underlying reasons behind compulsive behaviors, and promoting self-compassion instead of labeling behaviors as addiction.

Introduction

2min

Exploring Misconceptions of Sex and Porn Addiction

8min

Exploring Sexual Disorders and Compulsive Behavior in Gay Men

4min

Navigating Emotional Connections in Male Relationships

6min

Navigating Porn Addiction and Recovery

12min

Exploring Sexual Phobia and Intimacy Beyond Societal Norms

2min

Navigating Intimate Connections

8min

In this episode Matt interviews Psychotherapist and Clinical Sexologist, Dr. Joe Kort about Sex and Porn Addiction. Dr. Kort shares his 36 years of clinical experience working with sex addiction and compulsive sexual behaviors. In this episode we unpacked the following questions:

How do you define addiction?
What is the difference between compulsion and addiction?
How come you stopped labeling it sex addiction and now refer to compulsivity instead?
Why do gay men tend to struggle with sex and porn compulsivity?
What are your thoughts on gay men and intimacy disorders?
How does sex and porn compulsions impact one’s ability to develop intimacy?
What is a common course of treatment you would used to treat sex and porn compulsions?
What is one thing someone struggling with sex and porn compulsions can do to support themselves?

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