Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Are You Being Needy?

Nov 14, 2024
Explore the psychology of relationships and discover why being the 'nice girl' can diminish your value. Learn how to maintain your individuality and independence without sacrificing your interests for a partner. Gain insights on setting boundaries to prevent emotional depletion and cultivate healthier connections. Plus, indulge in a delicious meal delivery service and uncover a thought-provoking book about women's sexuality. Stop jumping through hoops and start prioritizing your own needs!
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ADVICE

Avoid Resentment

  • Stop jumping through hoops for a man's approval.
  • If giving something will cause resentment, don't give it; maintain self-respect.
INSIGHT

The Nice Girl Trap

  • Nice girls often make big sacrifices for men, neglecting their own routines and friends.
  • This behavior stems from insecurity and fear of not being liked as they are.
ANECDOTE

Sarisa's Story

  • Sarisa gave up salsa and tennis for her boyfriend, losing her independence.
  • He became unhappy, and she grew insecure, trying harder to win his affection.
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