457: Mastering and manifesting relationships - romantic and platonic with Stefanos Sifandos

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Dec 9, 2019

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ANECDOTE

From Pretend To Radical Self-Work

Stefanos Sifandos describes how he pretended to be faithful, happy, and evolved while hiding childhood traumas.
That unraveling led him to dissect his mind, body, and behaviors to heal and change relationships.

ADVICE

Be Brutally Honest About Yourself

Get brutally, radically honest about who you are and what relationship you truly want.
Face fears of rejection and identity loss to attract authentic, aligned partners.

ADVICE

Match Honesty To Self‑Confidence

Be upfront in dating only if you have a secure sense of self and can handle rejection.
If still working on insecurities, ease into honesty and observe more before radical disclosure.

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In This Episode You Will Learn About:

-Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course

-Facing rejection

-Being upfront when we’re dating

-Developing a secure sense of self

-Releasing pressure to be in a serious relationship by a certain time

-Avoiding the unrealistic expectation that your partner meets all your needs

-Learning how to constructively disagree

Resources:

-stefanossifandos.com

-stefanossifandos.com/bethequeen

-Instagram: @stefanossifandos

-becomealigned.com

Show Notes:

Stefanos Sifandos started studying relationships because he sucked at them. He was pretending he was faithful, happy and unafraid when the opposite was true. Eventually he got tired of trying to hide his childhood traumas and pain and started to look at every aspect of himself. His own journey sparked questions about healing the planet, and now he merges the best of Eastern and Western philosophies to help others enhance their lives and intimate relationships.

Question Highlights:

-How did you start to fall in love with the dynamics of relationships?

-How can you attract a partner who’s really in alignment with what you’re doing?

-How do you know what your partner should be to you and what should be being filled by other people?

-How do we release stories and timelines around when we’re supposed to be married or have found a partner?

-What advice do you have for people that want to take a risk but fear they might end up worse off?

-You're about to be married. How do you share your truth with your fiancée, and what does it look like when you fight?

Guest Bio:

Stefanos Sifandos has traversed the depths of his own pain, suicidal thoughts and profound fears and created innovative methodologies and models for navigating the often difficult path of contemporary manhood and intimate relationships. His work merges the best of Eastern and Western philosophies to bring people closer to their potential. On this journey Stefanos has worked with thousands of men and women from all over the world including elite special forces soldiers, Olympic gold medalists and world champion fighters.