How To Thrive In An Online World & A Devotional Marriage With Amanda Bucci | 22
Nov 26, 2023
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Guest Amanda Bucci, author and transformational life coach, discusses embracing authenticity, reinvention, and navigating criticism in the online world. The podcast also explores Amanda's journey into polyamory and the importance of self-reflection and compassion. They touch on setting boundaries, exploring desires, and the challenges of a polyamorous relationship. The speakers emphasize healing and growth in partnership, embracing the unknown, and the importance of authenticity in both relationships and business.
Overcoming insecurities and finding secure attachment within oneself are essential for engaging in open and honest polyamorous relationships.
Embracing non-monogamy requires owning one's truth, building self-worth, and having open communication within relationships.
There is no one-size-fits-all approach to relationships, and individuals should embrace their own desires and relationship dynamics free from societal judgments.
Deep dives
Journey of Polyamory and Self-exploration
The podcast episode explores the personal journey of the speaker in embracing and navigating polyamory in their marriage. It highlights the importance of overcoming insecurities and finding secure attachment within oneself to engage in open and honest relationships. The speaker shares how polyamory has allowed them to love openly and authentically, recognizing that individuals are not possessions and that loving other people does not diminish the connection within their primary partnership. The episode emphasizes the significance of having clear boundaries, building trust, and creating protocols in relationships, as well as the continuous growth and self-reflection required in navigating non-monogamy.
Navigating Challenges and Overcoming Judgment
The podcast episode delves into the challenges and judgments that arise when embracing non-monogamy. The speaker discusses the importance of owning one's truth and being secure enough to withstand criticism and societal expectations. They share their process of building self-worth and secure attachment within themselves, emphasizing the need for emotional safety and open communication within relationships. The episode encourages listeners to consider their own boundaries, explore their desires, and cultivate authentic connections based on their unique needs and preferences.
California Monogamy and Relationships on a Spectrum
The podcast episode explores the concept of 'California monogamy', which allows for an open and fluid approach to relationships. The speaker shares their experience of being functionally monogamous with their partner, with occasional exploration and connection with others. They emphasize the importance of honest communication and setting boundaries that align with both partners' comfort levels. The episode also highlights that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to relationships, and encourages listeners to embrace their own desires and relationship dynamics, free from societal judgments.
Embracing Authenticity and Self-Worth
The podcast episode emphasizes the significance of embracing authenticity and self-worth in relationships. The speaker shares their journey of overcoming conditioning and societal expectations to live in alignment with their desires and truth. They discuss the importance of self-work, emotional intelligence, and creating safe spaces within relationships. The episode encourages listeners to honor their own worthiness, navigate their individual boundaries, and cultivate relationships that allow for growth, love, and connection.
Embracing Polyamory and Overcoming Shame
The speaker shares their experience and exploration of polyamory, expressing the importance of being open and honest with oneself and one's partner. They recount a moment of insecurity and shame when their partner made out with another woman, highlighting the toxic conditioning and societal expectations around monogamy. They emphasize the need to nurture self-worth and reject the idea that one's value is determined by their partner's actions or attractions. The speaker encourages individuals to face their underlying wounds and insecurities head-on, using them as opportunities for growth and deeper connection in relationships.
Breaking Free from Identity Boxes and Embracing Wholeness
The speaker reflects on their personal journey of self-discovery and breaking down the limitations of societal identity boxes. They discuss the transformational power of tattoos and how getting a tattoo challenged their perceptions of themselves as just a person with tattoos. They highlight the importance of embracing the fluidity and ever-evolving nature of one's identity, allowing for growth, expansion, and connection with authenticity. The speaker encourages individuals to let go of rigid self-perceptions and embrace the truth of who they are in each moment, regardless of societal expectations or norms.
How Amanda reached success by embracing her true self
The art of reinventing yourself as an online personality
How becoming comfortable with the unknown will set you free Amanda’s journey into polyamory & the greatest glory moment in her marriage
The truth behind how safety actually expands boundaries
Bio
Amanda is a transformational life coach and author of the book Followed: The Content Creators Guide to Being Seen, Facing Judgment, and Building an Authentic Personal Brand. Amanda's books, programs, content and energy are where transformational growth, emotional + relational intelligence and personal branding converge. Her teachings and guidance have inspired millions of people to step into their journeys of authentic fulfillment, whether it's within their romantic relationships, business, or life path.
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00:00:00 Introduction 00:00:50 This Tantric Life with Layla Martin 00:01:25 Introduction to Amanda Bucci 00:03:41 Amanda’s journey to success by embracing her true self 00:08:48 Connect with Layla: https://laylamartin.com/join-list/ 00:09:41 Reinventing yourself & being online 00:14:41 Being comfortable with the unknown 00:22:09 Reacting to ‘meanness’ & finding peace with all of reality 00:28:32 Difference between a troll, a hater and a critic 00:31:25 Journey with polyamory 00:35:19 The VITA™ Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching Certification: https://laylamartin.com/vitacoaching/ 00:40:00 Can you own that your partner is a sexual being? 00:43:20 Can I share a truth? 00:49:35 Boundaries expand with more safety 00:55:16 Monogamy is not a safeguard against loss of love & eros 01:05:00 MOOD - Sex Magic https://shopmood.com 01:06:16 What was the moment of greatest glory in your marriage with polyamory? 01:07:13 What did you express online that you are most proud of? 01:10:50 What is the feeling to claim your wholeness? 01:13:45 Doing tantra means you will do what is true 01:14:33 Layla Martin Practice: holding close that which is uncomfortable 01:18:19 Conclusion
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