The Kink Consultant Ep 30 - The Reality of Being a Kink Educator: Moxie Rose on TikTok, Sex Ed & Community
What happens when a sex educator builds a half-million-strong following by telling the unfiltered truth about kink, consent, and community?
In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I sit down with the unapologetically brilliant Moxie Rose who is a TikTok creator and in-house educator at Shop Quinky. We get into what it means to lead with authenticity, hold ethical boundaries as an educator, and show up in kink spaces without shame.
Moxie shares her journey from private in-person educator to public kink figure, including how “The Moxie” move went viral, what it’s really like teaching sex ed online, and the importance of rejecting pressure to "go harder" just to prove you're kinky enough. We also dive into her thoughts on power dynamics, teaching consent, fighting coercion in kink spaces, and building inclusive, trust-first communities. From munches to shop floors to massive online platforms, she’s seen it all—and she’s here to tell it like it is.
Whether you're new to kink, building your community, or figuring out where you stand on power and play, this episode is packed with real talk and honest insight. Tune in for a raw, hilarious, and grounded conversation that will leave you smarter, safer, and ready to lead with intention.
Episode Highlights:
04:01 The Moxie: A Unique Intimacy Technique
06:34 The Importance of Ethical and Inclusive Education
15:18 Building and Finding Good Communities
18:47 Joining Mr. Pierre Fashion
19:58 The Kink Community and Education
20:38 Challenges with Selling Adult Products
22:23 The Role of Education in Kink
34:27 Importance of Boundaries and Consent
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