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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

Consequences vs Threats vs Punishments

Oct 31, 2023
The podcast discusses the differences between threats and consequences when it comes to parenting. It explores the use of timers to teach children about time management and making choices. The importance of setting boundaries and consequences in parenting is emphasized, along with understanding information overload and parent preferences. The podcast also discusses shared responsibility in setting boundaries and consequences, and the concept of reframing time and using logical consequences to shape behavior.
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Quick takeaways

  • Delivering consequences positively, without a threatening tone, helps children learn about choices and participation.
  • Consequences should be logical, age-appropriate, consistent, and delivered kindly to effectively teach positive behavior.

Deep dives

Understanding the Nuance between Threats and Consequences

This podcast episode explores the difference between using threats and explaining natural consequences with a three-year-old. The parent writing the email seeks guidance on whether their explanations of time-bound consequences are manipulative or helpful in teaching their child about choices and participation. The key lies in delivering consequences positively, without a threatening tone. The episode emphasizes the importance of being on the child's team and helping them navigate transitions. It also highlights the need for clear boundaries and communication between parents, allowing children to understand that others have needs and responsibilities too.

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