S24 Ep 3 | Attending to the Spirit: The Gift of Spiritual Direction
Sep 18, 2024
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Reverend Dr. David Hughes, a seasoned pastor, shares his journey into the often-misunderstood world of spiritual direction. He candidly recounts his initial discomfort and the profound value it brings, especially for men. The discussion highlights the growing importance of spiritual direction in deepening one’s faith experience. Ruth also explores the role of spiritual directors in navigating personal journeys, the significance of listening, and the need for a safe space in spiritual exploration. This conversation is rich with insights for anyone seeking connection with the divine.
Spiritual direction serves as an essential practice for guiding individuals in their spiritual journeys, fostering deeper connections with the Holy Spirit.
Understanding and articulating personal desires are vital in spiritual direction, helping individuals align their lives with divine calling and authenticity.
Deep dives
The Importance of Spiritual Direction
Spiritual direction is emphasized as a crucial practice for those seeking to follow the Holy Spirit. This practice has origins in the Catholic tradition, where spiritual directors guide individuals in their formation and help them discern the movement of the Spirit in their lives. Unlike mentoring or pastoral care, spiritual direction focuses on helping the directee pay attention to divine guidance, allowing them to recognize and respond to the Holy Spirit's activity. This form of companionship cultivates a deeper understanding of one's spirituality, fostering an environment where individuals can explore and affirm their spiritual journey.
Distinct Qualities of Spiritual Directors
Spiritual directors have unique training that sets them apart from mentors and counselors, focusing primarily on the discernment of spiritual experiences. Their role is not directive in nature; instead, they cultivate a space for directees to listen to their inner spiritual self and the prompts of the Holy Spirit. This facilitates a process where the directee can engage with their personal desires and God’s presence in their lives, assisting them in navigating their spiritual landscape. A good spiritual director utilizes thoughtful questioning to help directees clarify their spiritual experiences and discern what God is inviting them to do.
Focus on Desire and Spiritual Transformation
Desire plays a central role in spiritual direction, aligning with deeper spiritual transformation and connection to God. Spiritual directors encourage individuals to articulate their deepest spiritual desires, emphasizing that these longings are divinely instilled. By prioritizing personal desires over societal 'oughts' and 'shoulds,' individuals can cultivate a deeper intimacy with God and a more authentic spiritual practice. This approach also helps individuals reorder their lives around their spiritual goals, ultimately fostering a more profound engagement with their faith.
Navigating Complex Spiritual Choices
For spiritual leaders and mature believers, spiritual direction becomes essential, especially when faced with complex decisions that involve choosing between good options. As people grow in their spiritual journey, they often encounter situations requiring nuanced discernment rather than straightforward moral decisions. A spiritual director can provide the necessary support for leaders making significant transitions, helping them process their experiences and discern God’s guidance amidst competing good choices. This relationship empowers leaders to better align their actions with divine calling and remain attuned to the Spirit’s work in their lives.
If a greater understanding and awareness of our own desires is part of the future of Christian spirituality, then today’s topic, spiritual direction, is a necessary companion in that journey of discovery. In this episode, Ruth shares some of her thoughts on what spiritual direction is and is not, why she thinks it is an important part of the future of Christian spirituality, and some of her own personal experience as a director and a directee. Then she shares a conversation with Transforming Center friend and alumn, Reverend Dr. David Hughes, about his experience as a high-level pastor and leader who found himself with a surprising invitation to spiritual direction. David shares about how strange and even uncomfortable the practice was initially and why he thinks it’s especially important for men to enter into spiritual direction.
This season we are exploring the future of Christian spirituality. Based on her own experience and the lives of people she accompanies on the journey, Ruth has been naming what she is noticing and observing regarding the future of Christian spirituality– how the Spirit is moving and how we can align ourselves to participate in the future God is leading us into. Elements she is naming include respect for the role of desire; emphasis on spiritual direction; welcoming and inclusive; committed to justice; and more. This season Ruth will sit down with thoughtful Christian leaders to discuss their thoughts on one of these elements, as it has to do with the future of Christian spirituality. This season was inspired by the Beyond Words series by the same name. Check out those posts here.
Music Credit:
Kingdom Come by Aaron Niequist
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