

3606: This is My Most Expensive Habit by Ryan Holiday on Anxiety
11 snips May 22, 2025
Anxiety can be a costly habit that impacts our well-being more than any luxury. The discussion highlights how it often stems from our own thoughts and fears, borrowing wisdom from Stoic philosophers. Listeners learn to reframe anxiety and reclaim their presence, improving decision-making in time and finances. Simple daily improvements are recommended to foster a fulfilling life, emphasizing that our perceptions of events significantly shape our distress.
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Anxiety's Hidden Costs
- Ryan Holiday shares how anxiety has cost him time, relationships, and joy despite his careful financial habits.
- He missed important moments by dwelling on fears and worst-case scenarios rather than being present.
Anxiety Feeds on Itself
- Anxiety turns hypothetical fears into vivid mental realities, causing more suffering in imagination than reality.
- It sustains itself in a vicious cycle, draining mental, physical, emotional, and relational resources.
Discard Anxiety With Stoicism
- To combat anxiety, remind yourself it stems from your perceptions, not external events.
- Use Stoic principles like distinguishing what is up to you and freeing your mind from unhelpful opinions.