Today in Focus Having a baby with your best mate
Mar 21, 2025
Nicola Slawson, a journalist and author of "Single, Living a Complete Life on Your Own Terms," shares her inspiring journey of choosing to have a baby with her best friend, Tom. They explore the joys and challenges of platonic co-parenting, navigating responsibilities, and the unique bond they share. From tackling societal expectations to finding humor in parenting moments, their story highlights the transformative power of friendship in creating a modern family dynamic. Nicola's insights offer a refreshing perspective on love and companionship.
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Childhood Dreams & Societal Pressures
- Nicola Slawson always envisioned having children, even buying books and discussing parenting with her first love.
- As she got older, she felt societal pressure around dating and having kids.
Dating Discomfort & The Male Luxury
- Nicola felt uncomfortable with dating due to the pressure surrounding finding a partner and having kids.
- She witnessed friends' relationships fail due to infidelity or changed minds about children, highlighting men's 'luxury' to postpone parenthood.
Pandemic Isolation & Inspiration
- During the pandemic, Nicola felt isolated and started researching solo motherhood but found it financially daunting.
- Jeremy Hunt's childcare announcement and a friend's story about known sperm donation inspired her to consider alternative paths.
