Scott Barry Kaufman, a renowned humanistic psychologist and author of "Transcend," dives into the intricate world of human psychology. He reinterprets Maslow's hierarchy of needs, likening it to a sailboat, balancing basic security with creative growth. The conversation explores the impact of loneliness, attachment styles, and the nuanced differences between healthy self-esteem and narcissism. Kaufman emphasizes the importance of purpose and meaningful connections, urging listeners to rethink self-actualization as a journey towards transcendence and genuine relationships.
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Human Complexity
Studying humans is more complex than studying the universe due to individual differences and unpredictability.
Human behavior lacks the regularity found in physical phenomena, making psychological study challenging.
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Maslow's True Hierarchy
Maslow never visualized his hierarchy of needs as a pyramid; it was a dynamic, developmental process.
Humans constantly fluctuate between needs, and self-actualization isn't a final destination.
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Security vs. Growth
Kaufman emphasizes the interplay between security and growth needs as a key aspect of Maslow's theory.
He uses a sailboat metaphor: the hull symbolizes security needs, the sail symbolizes growth.
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Transcend
The New Science of Self-Actualization
Scott Barry Kaufman
In this groundbreaking book, Scott Barry Kaufman updates Maslow's hierarchy of needs by integrating Maslow's unfinished theory of transcendence with the latest research on attachment, connection, creativity, love, and purpose. Kaufman's new hierarchy of needs serves as a roadmap for finding purpose and fulfillment by becoming the best version of oneself, rather than striving for money, success, or happiness. The book emphasizes the importance of merging self-development with a connection to the world, highlighting that self-actualization requires both individual growth and a deep integration with others. It includes never-before-published insights, new research findings, and exercises to help readers gain insight into their unique personality and nurture a deeper connection with their highest potential and humanity.
If one of the ambitious goals of philosophy is to determine the meaning of life, one of the ambitious goals of psychology is to tell us how to achieve it. An influential work in this direction was Abraham Maslow’s hierarchy of needs — a list of human needs, often displayed suggestively in the form of a pyramid, ranging from the most basic (food and shelter) to the most refined. At the top lurks “self-actualization," the ultimate goal of achieving one’s creative capacities. Psychologist Scott Barry Kaufman has elaborated on this model, both by exploring less-well-known writings of Maslow’s, and also by incorporating more recent empirical psychological studies. He suggests the more dynamical metaphor of a sailboat, where the hull represents basic security needs and the sail more creative and dynamical capabilities. It’s an interesting take on the importance of appreciating that the nature of our lives is one of constant flux.
Scott Barry Kaufman received his Ph.D. in cognitive psychology from Yale University. He has taught at Columbia University, NYU, the University of Pennsylvania, and elsewhere. He is the host of The Psychology Podcast. He was named by Business Insider as one of the “50 groundbreaking scientists who are changing the way we see the world.” He is the author of numerous books; his most recent, Transcend: The New Science of Self-Actualization, is published April 7.
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