Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther Calling - I Need Her to See Me
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Jun 23, 2022 A young woman grapples with standing up to her mother amidst a backdrop of trauma. The discussion dives deep into the legacy of parental experiences and its effect on adulthood, highlighting the need for understanding and healing. Topics like navigating authority figures and emotional recognition unveil the complexity of familial ties, while the power of written communication emerges as a therapeutic tool. Engaging storytelling reinforces the importance of recognizing both gratitude and emotional needs in relationships.
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Caller's Background
- The caller's mother, a political activist, was kidnapped and tortured.
- This trauma affected their relationship, leading to cycles of forgiveness and estrangement.
Addressing Transferred Trauma
- Esther Perel advises the caller to address the transferred trauma affecting other relationships.
- This will help her build a healthier relationship with her mother.
Mother's Behavior
- The caller's mother, a respected activist, struggled with alcoholism at home.
- Her unresolved trauma manifested as anger and violence towards her daughter.