Living with Heart: From Birth to Death Season 6: Episode 71 - Pitfalls of Leadership (Introduction)
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Leaders Have a Need for Help:
- Everyone, believe it or not, is created to lead. Everyone who cares about something and is investing themselves in what they care about is leading.
- Leaders find much fulfillment in serving others.
- Whether it’s serving as a CEO or a parent, the most significant moments for leaders come when they are giving their gifts, abilities, passion, and creativity.
- Leaders who pour out great energy doing what is fulfilling also need to refill.
*Leaders need to be able to receive restoration and replenishment so they can continue to
serve well. They refill by being humble enough to know their limits, to recognize their needs, and to ask for
help.
I have worked with leaders for more than thirty-five years. I have recognized five common pitfalls that block leaders from receiving the replenishment that is essential to lead well. These pitfalls can stymie a leader’s passion and purpose. As a result, the people the leader wishes to help ultimately do not receive what they need.
Pitfalls of Leadership
Life is full of struggle, and the struggle is not preventable. Samuel Beckett wrote, “You are on earth. There is no cure for that.” Life’s struggles are inevitable, but the Pitfalls of Leadership are preventable.
The Five Pitfalls:
- Work becomes confused with one’s worth.
- Performance begins to be valued more than one’s presence.
- People become things.
- To be an example to others, the true self is isolated.
- Secrets sap one’s passion and purpose.
These pitfalls can destroy careers, friendships, reputations, marriages and families—unless one is freed from them.
Everyone always wonders, “What happened to them? How did this self-destruction happen?”
These episodes on the “Pitfalls” are about preventing those questions from being asked. Whether you are a parent, a pastor, a plumber, or a pulmonologist, these episodes are for you.
These episodes are also about what to do when you find yourself in the “Pitfalls” or when the consequences have already impacted your life.
Hope in spite of the Pitfalls: The beauty of life and the beauty of God in our lives gives us the hope of:
- redemption
- recovery
- restoration