Extended Lovemaking: From Goal-Oriented Sex to Deep, Meditative Intimacy with Ariel Szabo & Rahi Chun

What if lovemaking didn’t have to be rushed, goal-oriented, or focused on orgasm?

What if sex could feel spacious, meditative, and deeply connecting?

In this intimate conversation, somatic sex educators and partners Rahi Chun and Ariel Szabo explore the practice of extended lovemaking — a slow, presence-based approach to intimacy that prioritizes connection, nervous system safety, and full-body pleasure over performance or climax.

Together, they share:

• the difference between goal-oriented sex and meditative lovemaking
• how slowing down increases sensitivity and pleasure
• why many couples feel unsatisfied even after orgasm
• edging and extended arousal states
• one-way touch and genital mapping practices
• how the nervous system shapes intimacy
• the 8 Pillars of Intimacy for deeper connection
• how lovemaking can become a spiritual and relational practice

If you long for more depth, more connection, and more pleasure with your partner — this episode offers a new way forward.

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