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2243: Everybody Else is Cheating, Right - Not Necessarily by Dr. Gwendolyn Seidman of Luvze on Relationship Advice

Jul 16, 2024
11:43
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Dr. Gwendolyn Seidman, relationship expert, discusses perceptions of infidelity and societal norms. She challenges us to align with our values instead of perceived norms. Topics include social comparison theory, pluralistic ignorance, and the impact on behavior.
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Quick takeaways

  • Perceptions of friends' infidelity attitudes can influence personal cheating behavior.
  • Pluralistic ignorance leads to overestimating prevalence of cheating, challenging individuals to align with true values.

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The Influence of Perceived Social Norms on Cheating Behavior

Research suggests that individuals' attitudes towards cheating are influenced by their perceptions of their friends' behaviors. Studies have shown a correlation between people's cheating attitudes and the faithfulness of their friends. If individuals believe that their friends condone cheating, they are more likely to engage in infidelity, assuming it is socially acceptable. Pluralistic ignorance can lead people to overestimate the prevalence and acceptability of cheating, potentially influencing them to conform to false norms.

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