Pillow Talks

E190: Am I Being Reasonable Or Ridiculous?

Jan 9, 2025
This discussion dives into the intricate balance of reasonable versus ridiculous relationship requests. The hosts explore boundaries with a listener's role-play idea and stress the importance of clear communication in intimacy. They tackle desires around masturbation and personal space while emphasizing the need for self-care. With insights on rekindling wedding night fantasies and navigating societal pressures on sexual needs, the conversation is both playful and insightful, offering practical advice for couples seeking deeper connections.
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ADVICE

Respectful Role Play Requests

  • Requesting your partner to role play as a friend is reasonable, but expecting a yes is unlikely.
  • Bring up such desires respectfully and in neutral moments, not during intimacy.
ADVICE

Communicate About Masturbation

  • It's reasonable to address masturbation habits if they impact your sex life.
  • Prioritize intimacy with your partner by inviting them before masturbating.
ADVICE

Respect Shower Silence

  • Wanting silence during your shower time, especially as a parent, is a totally reasonable request.
  • Create rituals for connection outside shower time to respect personal space.
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