Dad Tired Porn, Shame, and the Journey to Real Healing (with Nick Stumbo) |464
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Apr 14, 2025 
Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, shares his compelling journey from addiction and shame to healing through faith. He discusses the often overlooked struggles many men face, emphasizing confession as a stepping stone, not the end. Stumbo reveals three key questions that led to his self-discovery and outlines how trauma and shame can perpetuate cycles of addiction. This talk dives deep beyond pornography, addressing the foundational needs of the soul and the road to true recovery.
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Nick's Addiction Journey
- Nick Stumbo shared his personal journey of struggling with pornography addiction starting from childhood to adulthood.
- He described repeated failed attempts to quit and the impact on his marriage, leading to seeking professional help.
Brain Chemistry and Shame Cycle
- Pornography triggers the brain's reward system similarly to cocaine, making it highly addictive.
- Shame cycles and unmet emotional needs reinforce addictive behavior and keep individuals trapped in destructive patterns.
Catch Triggers Early
- Recognize predictable triggers and behaviors to interrupt addiction early instead of battling relapse at the end.
- Develop healthier coping strategies for loneliness, boredom, and procrastination to prevent the addiction train from starting.