SPFPP 296: Pleasure Identity

Kit (they/them), is a 26 year old hula-hooping, neurodivergent, queer, and poyamorous person living with herpes. Originally, Kit reached out with some positive shares they wanted to bring to the podcast. I recognize them for hula hooping on IG and somehow our conversation began speaking about how a herpes diagnosis changes our relationship not just with sex, but with pleasure. What people don’t often know is that sex can go beyond the feeling of orgasm from genital contact. Kit and I discuss some elements of kink and BDSM that give us the same things we seek through sex. Feeling and being connected to another person can still happen without genital contact. Shoutout to our sponsor Shamelss Care offering ED medication AND at home STI tests (including herpes). When you use their services, use our code SPFPP at checkout and visit www.shamelesscare.com/spfpp today!