Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties Episode 44: Boom Boom Boom Boom AHHhhAahhhaaa
May 20, 2019
Confidence in the bedroom takes center stage as the hosts explore how to embrace intimacy without the pressure of unrealistic cultural norms. They also address the complexities of quick romances and the importance of slowing things down. Listeners are encouraged to communicate their needs openly and prioritize pleasure. With humor and relatable anecdotes, the duo discusses navigating friendship and betrayal, emphasizing self-honesty and healing. It's a candid look at love and relationships that balances laughter and insight.
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Live Show Jitters And Crafting Prep
- Sierra and Sam describe nervously planning their live anniversary show and prepping strategies like caffeine or champagne.
- The hosts reveal casual, human details like preferring decaf and over-creamed coffee to manage nerves.
Normalize Talking About Sex
- Normalize sexual language and talk about preferences with your partner to reduce embarrassment and confusion.
- Use direct phrases like "I want you to do this" or "that doesn't feel good" to shape better sex.
Playfulness Trumps Performance
- Sex feels best when partners laugh and relax instead of performing a scripted ideal from porn or movies.
- Confidence grows from connection and play, not trying to imitate unrealistic depictions.