Stop Living by One-Size-Fits-All Budgets — and Paying for One-Size-Fits-All Financial Advice

Aug 11, 2025

Dana Miranda, an unconventional personal finance author, and James Bashall, a financial advisor with NerdWallet Wealth Partners, discuss the pitfalls of adhering to rigid budgeting rules. Dana argues for personalized spending methods and sees emergency funds as opportunities rather than safety nets. James shares insights into various financial advisor fees, helping listeners understand the value and implications of paying for financial advice. Together, they challenge traditional finance norms, emphasizing tailored solutions over one-size-fits-all approaches.

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INSIGHT

Question One-Size-Fits-All Budgets

Dana Miranda warns that common budgeting rules often don't fit individual circumstances.
She says blanket prescriptions can provoke shame rather than help people manage money.

ADVICE

Treat Your Budget As An Experiment

Dana Miranda recommends experimenting with spending plans like 50-30-20 to see what fits.
Adjust the plan and ask how money should support your month, year, and long term.

ADVICE

Prioritize By Consequences Not Rules

Dana Miranda tells listeners to identify consequences before choosing which bills or debts to pay.
Use those consequences to make financial triage that reflects your needs and priorities.

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Understand how to assess when financial advisor fees are worth it and how to rethink personal finance rules that don’t serve you.

What are the different financial advisor fees, and how can you decide if they’re worth it? Do you need to follow traditional budgeting and debt payoff rules to be financially successful? Hosts Sean Pyles and Elizabeth Ayoola answer a listener’s question about how to navigate financial advisor fees. But first, personal finance Nerd Kim Palmer joins the show to share her conversation with Dana Miranda, author of You Don’t Need a Budget, about why certain traditional budgeting frameworks may not be the right fit for everyone. Dana offers tips on experimenting with spending plans, prioritizing comfort over rigid rules, and how to reframe emergency funds as tools for opportunity, not just crisis.

Then, Sean and Elizabeth welcome James Bashall, financial advisor at NerdWallet Wealth Partners, to answer a listener’s question about financial advisor fees, from AUM-based and fixed-fee models to fiduciary vs. suitability standards. They explain what high and low fees look like, what credentials to look for in an advisor, and when paying a premium might actually bring peace of mind (or not).

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In their conversation, the Nerds discuss: financial advisor fees, when are financial advisor fees worth it, fiduciary vs suitability standard, how much does a financial advisor cost, AUM fee structure, fee-based vs fee-only advisors, how to hire a financial advisor, certified financial planner vs financial advisor, financial advisor credentials CFP, what is a fiduciary, what is AUM, robo advisor vs human advisor, average financial advisor fee, high financial advisor fees, passive vs active investing, index funds vs mutual funds, how to choose a financial advisor, budgeting rules that don’t work, 50/30/20 budget rule, Dana Miranda budget book, alternative to emergency fund, comfort fund vs emergency fund, financial triage, how to compare financial advisors, intuitive spending, what is intuitive spending, understanding investment fees, best financial advisor structure, how to spot hidden advisor fees, shopping for a financial advisor, emotional benefits of financial planning, and pros and cons of robo advisors.

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