Our third scholar in the series is Chetana Sabnis, who is a doctoral candidate at the Department of Political Science at Yale University. Her research focuses on how states regulate intimate relationships and construct hierarchies of familial belonging. We spoke about her job market paper titled, The Intimacy Contract in Action: How Indian Courts Determine which Extramarital Relationships Deserve Recognition. We talked about extramarital affairs, polygamous relationships, Uniform Civil Code, social versus legal acceptance, and much more.

Recorded September 5th, 2025.

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Timestamps

(00:00:00) - Intro

(00:01:23) - How Courts Recognize “Family”

(00:03:12) - Why This Paper? Rethinking “Family”

(00:05:28) - India’s Legal Patchwork: Customs vs. Code

(00:11:07) - Judicial Heuristics: Rituals, Cohabitation, Children

(00:14:44) - Endogamy vs. Interfaith: Law, Bias, and Recognition

(00:22:22) - How the State Views Children

(00:25:27) - Welfare Logic & Gendered Maintenance

(00:29:29) - UCC and the “Intimacy Contract”

(00:35:48) - The Role of the State

(00:42:30) - Contract vs. Sacrament

(00:49:00) - Outro

Chetana Sabnis on The Intimacy Contract and the Indian State