Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell 215: Sex After Porn, Premature Ejaculation, Discomfort Beyond Missionary Position, Wanting To Be Desired - Q&A Part 1
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Nov 22, 2024 Listeners dive into the complexities of emotional and sexual intimacy in marriage. A husband grapples with connecting emotionally, while a wife seeks rekindled desire after her husband's battle with pornography. Discussion flows toward conquering premature ejaculation and redefining comfort beyond missionary position. One wife desires verbal affirmations from her spouse, reflecting on the importance of feeling desired. The conversation highlights the significance of open communication and exploring emotional bonds to rejuvenate relationships.
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Overcoming Emotional Shutdown
- Acknowledge that emotional vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness.
- Practice staying present in vulnerable moments with your wife instead of withdrawing.
Rebuilding Desire After Pornography
- Addressing hurt and rebuilding trust are crucial for reigniting desire after a partner quits porn.
- Starting the marriage over with a focus on emotional connection and intimacy can be beneficial.
Penis Size and Premature Ejaculation
- Penis size is less important for female pleasure than emotional connection and clitoral stimulation.
- Focus on your wife's pleasure and emotional connection rather than performance anxieties.