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101: A Therapist and Her Husband Chose To Be Childfree. Here's Why feat. Vanessa and Xander Marin
Dec 6, 2023
Join therapist Vanessa and her husband Xander as they share why they chose to remain childfree. They discuss their unconventional decision, the struggles of societal expectations, and the importance of embracing multiple truths. Explore their ongoing conversation and experiences on this topic, along with addressing judgment and stigma. Plus, hear about the pressure faced by parents and the reactions they received when revealing their decision.
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- Choosing to be child-free is a valid option that should be respected, and individuals should make decisions based on their own desires rather than societal expectations.
- Facing external judgments and intrusive questions are common for those who choose not to have children, but supporting each other's choices and validating diverse perspectives is crucial.
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The Choice to Be Child-Free
Vanessa Marin and Xander Marin discuss their decision not to have children and how it has impacted their lives. They emphasize that choosing to be child-free is a valid option and should be respected. They share their journey of questioning societal norms and listening to their own desires. The couple acknowledges the grief that comes with their decision, as well as the potential for regret. They highlight the importance of open communication, checking in with each other, and allowing for the possibility of change in the future.
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