Women of Impact Are You Dating a "Nice Guy"? 11 Signs He’s Not Who He Pretends to Be | Dr. Gwen Adshead
Jun 4, 2025
Dr. Gwen Adshead, a forensic psychotherapist and author of "The Devil You Know," dives into the intricate world of emotional manipulation. She unveils the 'False Mask of Normalcy,' highlighting the importance of spotting red flags in seemingly nice partners. Discussions include attachment theory and how it influences relationships, along with the risks of trusting too quickly. Listeners are equipped with actionable tools to recognize toxic behaviors and maintain emotional autonomy, empowering them to navigate relationships with greater confidence.
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Risk Factors Behind Danger
- Dangerous people often appear safe due to a combination of risk factors like troubled backgrounds and substance abuse.
- Multiple risk factors must align, like anger during conflict, to escalate potential violence.
Cautious Trust in New People
- Take your time before fully trusting new people and question rapid trust.
- Be cautious and observe others carefully since true normalcy is complex and deceptive.
First Date Red Flags
- A friend escaped a dangerous date who was rude and disrespectful to others.
- Her red flags included his rudeness to the waitress and disrespect of former partners on the first date.
