Amy Tuteur on Birth, Natural Parenting, and Push Back

In 'Tribe: On Homecoming and Belonging', Sebastian Junger delves into the human desire for community and belonging. Drawing from history, psychology, and anthropology, Junger examines why many individuals, including combat veterans, often feel a stronger sense of belonging in tribal or wartime environments than in modern society. He argues that the lack of community in affluent societies can lead to feelings of isolation and depression, while disasters and wars can paradoxically bring people together and foster a sense of unity. The book challenges the notion that modern society is superior to tribal societies, highlighting the benefits of egalitarianism and community found in the latter. Junger also discusses how the absence of these communal bonds can affect veterans returning from war and suggests that societal changes could help reintegrate them and improve overall societal well-being.

In 'Cribsheet', Emily Oster applies her economic perspective to the challenges of early parenting. The book debunks myths and conventional wisdom by analyzing research and scientific studies on various parenting issues such as breastfeeding, circumcision, sleep training, and childcare. Oster emphasizes that there is often no single 'right' answer and that decisions should be based on a combination of data and what works best for each family's unique circumstances. The book aims to empower parents with a decision framework, helping them navigate the complexities of parenting with a calm and informed approach.

In 'Push Back: Guilt in the Age of Natural Parenting', Dr. Amy Tuteur critiques the natural parenting movement by debunking its myths and revealing its often misogynistic roots. She argues that this movement capitalizes on parental guilt, promoting unrealistic expectations around childbirth and parenting. Tuteur advocates for evidence-based decision-making, empowering parents to choose methods that are right for them without fear of judgment.

This book provides medically authoritative and morally grounded advice on every aspect of parenting, drawing from the Sears' experience as parents of eight children. It covers topics ranging from choosing an obstetrician to disciplining teenagers.