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Is empathy toxic?

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Oct 5, 2025
Jamil Zaki, a Stanford psychology professor and empathy researcher, joins Roxanne Stone, Executive Editor at Religion News Service, to dissect the emerging debate on empathy. They explore the contentious notion that empathy can be toxic, particularly within evangelical circles, where critiques arise. Jamil explains empathy’s components and its neural benefits, while Roxanne discusses its misinterpretation in political contexts. Together, they highlight the importance of healthy empathy, discussing burnout and how it can be cultivated as a skill.
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ANECDOTE

Therapist Runs Out Of Empathy

  • Erica Steenbergen describes therapist burnout from constant empathy and lacking 'brakes.'
  • She recounts feeling worn out and unable to switch off compassion after tough days with clients.
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Empathy Recast As Dangerous In Some Faith Circles

  • A movement in some evangelical circles labels empathy as 'toxic' or even sinful when it enables harmful beliefs.
  • Critics argue empathy can drag you into others' problems rather than help from firm ground of truth.
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Quicksand Metaphor Frames The Critique

  • Critics contrast empathy with sympathy using the quicksand metaphor: empathy jumps in, sympathy pulls from shore.
  • They claim objectivity or scripture provides the solid ground to rescue others without sinking.
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