Jason Khalipa Podcast

Rules of Engagement: How to Show Up in Your Relationship

Nov 12, 2025
Dive into the dynamics of relationships as Jason and MDV explore how men and women communicate differently. Discover the importance of keeping the romance alive by continuously 'dating' your partner. They emphasize accountability and the need to actively nurture your bond, tackling challenges like lust and temptation head-on. Learn how to ask the right questions in conversations and the value of seeking help when needed. The discussion highlights the concept that relationships require consistent effort and a commitment to grow together.
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ADVICE

Match The Mode

  • Match your partner's mode: respond with facts to facts and feelings to feelings.
  • Ask whether they want empathy or solutions before offering advice.
ANECDOTE

Morning Complaint Example

  • Jason shares that Ashley said he often replies to her feeling with facts like "you should have gone to sleep earlier."
  • That example showed him failing to match the mode and taught him to change.
ADVICE

Ask Before Solving

  • Ask your partner directly whether they want you to listen or help find a solution.
  • Use that cue to avoid defaulting to problem-solving when empathy is needed.
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