Scratch That: Parenting & ReParenting Off Script 🎙️Trading the Status Quo for the Risk of a Dream with Kate Wieners
A year ago, Kate Wieners quit her corporate job to open a cozy, plant-filled bookstore, Monstera's Books. And while it sounds like the pitch for a movie we'd all love, today Kate talks with us about the real-life, fleshed-out story. What stars had to align for her to leave the "good enough" setup she already had for the risk of a dream? What has it been like to be a partner and a parent as she makes this great leap? What is it like to create a third-space community around books and storytelling right now? And does the nervous-scary of a big risky dream ever go away?
Tune in to hear us talk about:
☎️ The story of the old 70s phone they use in the store and all the ways it sets the tone for the shop.
💫 What Kate's husband Justin said when he heard her name her bookstore dream out loud at a party.
％ The strategies Kate and Justin have developed to navigate living, parenting, and working together.
🔧 The big and unexpected monkey wrench in their plans and how that became the scary ideal way to actually launch their plans.
🔔 The epiphany Kate had while waiting for someone else to tell her she had a brilliant plan.
🌿 Why Kate thinks Monstera's Books is a worthy competitor to Amazon.
Just making the next decision and getting comfortable with chaos.
📚 The conversation Kate overheard in the bookstore that highlighted the unique power of third spaces (especially ones that center storytelling).
💓 The tremendous value/power of little risks. (Or how something as simple as a romance bookclub could save someone's life.)
✨ How paying attention to the sparkle dream in ourselves can meet a much larger need in our communities.
⚡️ What Kate hopes her daughters take away from growing up in this bookstore.
Mentioned In Today's Episode:
Two books recommended by Monstera's Books patrons – The Covenant of Water by Abraham Verghese and A Court of Thorns and Roses by Sarah J. Maas
Two of Kate's top book recommendations – I Am, I Am, I Am: Seventeen Brushes with Death by Maggie O'Farrell and Wild Dark Shore by Charlotte McConaghy
As Always:
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