GenX Adulting Podcast Episode 33 - Parenting Adult Children
May 20, 2025
Brian and Nicole explore the evolving dynamics of parenting adult children. They emphasize the shift from traditional oversight to a more sibling-like relationship, focusing on independence while still offering support. The challenges of adulting in a tough economy and the different communication styles of Gen Z in the workplace are discussed. They also reflect on the importance of nurturing family ties, maintaining open communication, and creating an 'open nest' environment where adult children feel welcome yet independent.
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The Second Childhood in 20s
- The 20s are a "second childhood" with wild ups and downs due to brain development.
- Maturity increases as the frontal lobe closes, impacting decision-making and perspective.
Raising a Bonus Baby
- Nicole and Brian share experience raising a "bonus baby" with a 10-13 year age gap.
- Older siblings have fatherly and protective roles while including him in their lives.
Be a Safe Landing Pad
- Maintain connection and be a safe landing pad for adult children for support and guidance.
- Offer nonjudgmental presence for their decisions on jobs, relationships, and life.
