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1930: [Part 1] 10 Ways to Screw Up an Apology by Keith Wilson on Sincerity and Owning Up to Your Mistakes

Oct 16, 2023
08:58
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Keith Wilson, a licensed mental health counselor, discusses 10 ways to screw up an apology. He emphasizes the importance of acknowledging wrongdoing, being specific, showing empathy, and focusing on making amends. Genuine apologies and considering the impact of our actions on others are also highlighted.
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Quick takeaways

  • Acknowledge the harm caused without justifications and rationalizations.
  • Be specific and provide concrete details of the actions and their effects.

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Apologizing without confessing or admitting wrongdoing

One of the common mistakes in apologies is failing to confess or admit wrongdoing. People often say 'I'm sorry' without acknowledging the harm they caused or explaining what they will do to make it right. However, offering justifications and rationalizations instead of a genuine confession undermines the apology. It is important to avoid explaining why you did the hurtful action and focus on taking responsibility for your part in the problem.

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