The Long and The Short Of It 341. Victim vs. Player
Apr 8, 2025
Explore the thrilling contrasts between a victim mentality and being a proactive player in both life and work. Discover how taking ownership can catapult your career and strengthen team dynamics. Dive into the psychological barriers that hinder accountability and trust, and learn how vulnerability can boost performance. With compelling sports analogies, uncover the power of personal responsibility and the mindset shifts needed to elevate your leadership game. Embrace self-empowerment for lasting success!
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The School Bag Anecdote
- Claire Hughes-Johnson uses a comical example of a toddler forgetting their school bag to illustrate victim vs. player mentality.
- The "victim" blames the bag, while the "player" takes responsibility: "I left the bag."
The Unfinished Report
- In the workplace, a "victim" might say, "The report's not written yet," deflecting responsibility.
- A "player" would say, "I haven't finished writing the report yet," owning their actions.
Fear of Consequences
- Deflecting responsibility often stems from a fear of consequences, such as blame or ridicule.
- Ironically, this avoidance can erode trust, creating the opposite effect.
