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The Science Of Attachment (with Michael John Cusick)
Nov 25, 2024
Michael John Cusick, a Licensed Professional Counselor and spiritual director, dives into the fascinating science and theology of attachment. He shares how being seen, soothed, safe, and secure forms healthy relationships and supports recovery from addiction. Cusick discusses the profound effects of parental gaze on identity formation and the need for nurturing divine attachment. He also highlights the journey of embracing vulnerabilities to find joy and healing, culminating in a serene meditation on Psalm 131.
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- Healthy attachment, characterized by being seen, soothed, safe, and secure, is crucial for emotional development and relationships with others and God.
- Early experiences of soothing shape emotional regulation and coping mechanisms, influencing adult behaviors and susceptibility to addiction.
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Understanding Attachment and Its Impact
Attachment is a fundamental process that shapes a child’s emotional development and ability to form relationships. Healthy attachment relies on being seen, soothed, safe, and secure, which influences how individuals connect with others, including God. When these attachment needs are unmet, it can lead to unhealthy compensatory attachments to behaviors or substances, such as pornography. The podcast discusses how underlying issues like trauma and attachment influence relationships and contribute to sexual brokenness.
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