Husband Material The Science Of Attachment (with Michael John Cusick)
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Nov 25, 2024 Michael John Cusick, a Licensed Professional Counselor and spiritual director, dives into the fascinating science and theology of attachment. He shares how being seen, soothed, safe, and secure forms healthy relationships and supports recovery from addiction. Cusick discusses the profound effects of parental gaze on identity formation and the need for nurturing divine attachment. He also highlights the journey of embracing vulnerabilities to find joy and healing, culminating in a serene meditation on Psalm 131.
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Cusick's Food Addiction
- Michael John Cusick shares his personal struggle with food addiction, separate from his sexual compulsion.
- He highlights the role of attachment in both, emphasizing the need to address underlying emotional needs.
The Four S's of Attachment
- The four S's—seen, soothed, safe, and secure—are crucial for healthy attachment.
- These elements, especially being seen through eye contact, shape early brain development and self-regulation.
The False Self and Addiction
- A dominant false self, whether inflated or diminished, prevents genuine love and acceptance.
- This unmet need for love can drive addiction as we seek fulfillment elsewhere.
