WHY YOUR BODY LANGUAGE SHAPES WHO YOU ARE! Ted Talk's Amy Cuddy!
Feb 25, 2019
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In this engaging discussion, Amy Cuddy, a Harvard Professor and New York Times best-selling author, reveals the profound impact of body language on personal confidence. She shares insights on overcoming imposter syndrome and the importance of power poses. Amy also explores the concept of the 'spirit of the staircase,' the difference between confidence and cockiness, and how authentic communication is key in high-pressure scenarios. Listeners will learn to bring their boldest selves forward in challenges while navigating vulnerability and authenticity.
Adopting power poses significantly boosts self-confidence and readiness for high-pressure situations like interviews or public speaking.
Overcoming imposter syndrome involves recognizing common feelings of inadequacy and focusing on authentic self-assurance rather than external validation.
Deep dives
The Connection Between Body Language and Confidence
Body language plays a crucial role in shaping an individual's self-perception and confidence levels. By adopting expansive postures known as power poses, individuals can significantly enhance their feelings of empowerment, especially before high-pressure situations such as job interviews or public speaking engagements. Research suggests that these postures, which include stances like the 'Superman' pose, can lead to both physiological and psychological benefits, promoting a sense of well-being and readiness. Therefore, implementing these simple changes in body language can positively influence performance and self-assurance.
Understanding and Overcoming Imposter Syndrome
Imposter syndrome, the feeling of being a fraud or not deserving of success, affects a large portion of the population, including both men and women. This pervasive mindset can deter individuals from seizing opportunities or engaging in challenges due to a persistent fear of being 'found out.' Overcoming this syndrome involves recognizing that the feelings of inadequacy are common and that one's achievements are valid and deserve acknowledgment. Emphasizing authentic self-assurance rather than relying solely on external validation can facilitate personal and professional growth.
Emphasizing Authenticity in Communication
Authenticity in communication is essential for establishing trust and credibility, especially in professional environments. Presenting oneself authentically, which includes being true to one's feelings and thoughts, fosters connection and increases the likelihood of success in endeavors like job interviews. Enthusiastic and high-confidence nonverbal behaviors significantly contribute to how others perceive an individual, often being more impactful than the content of the message itself. By embracing one's true self and aligning verbal and nonverbal communication, individuals can stand out and leave lasting impressions.
The Role of Self-Affirmation in Personal Growth
Despite common misconceptions, traditional self-affirmation techniques, which focus on promoting an inflated sense of self-worth, are often ineffective. Instead, a more profound approach involves identifying and reflecting on one's core values and the traits that genuinely define them. This method provides a grounded sense of self, allowing individuals to connect deeper with their identities, especially in stress-inducing situations. By reinforcing one's authentic self rather than a fabricated ideal, individuals can better navigate challenges and maintain a sense of security and confidence.
If you’ve ever wondered how to bring out your bravest boldest self, then do we have the presence producing show for you!
Today I’ll be talking with Amy Cuddy, Harvard Professor, amazing Ted Talk speaker, and new york times best-selling author of one of my new favorite books, Presence.
Today we’ll talk about bring your boldest self to your biggest challenges, plus impostorism, iposture and power poses.
That plus we’ll talk about l’esprit d’escalier – the spirit of the staircase, why we want to stop being silk, what we can all learn from Barishnakov, when you want to shut off an annoying fan, a challenge to all daughters, sisters and female friends, what we can all learn from pill bugs, and what in the world happens when you decide to marry an Australian.