Life Kit Dear LK: I uninvited my sister-in-law from our wedding
Sep 10, 2022
Rachel Wilkerson Miller, Editor-in-chief of Self magazine and author of The Art of Showing Up, brings valuable insights on wedding etiquette and family dynamics. She addresses a bride's dilemma about uninviting a sister-in-law who brought unauthorized guests to a no-kids wedding. The discussion navigates effective communication strategies, emotional fallout, and setting healthy boundaries. Rachel emphasizes the importance of grace in managing unfavorable relationships and advocates for small changes leading to significant impacts in relationships.
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Setting Wedding Boundaries
- Set boundaries for your wedding, like a child-free policy.
- Communicate them clearly and kindly, but stick to them.
Balancing Accommodation and Boundaries
- Accommodate guests when possible, especially regarding money.
- Don't let others bully you into changing set boundaries.
Accepting Consequences
- Recognize that getting what you want can have consequences.
- Accept that others may be upset by your choices, even if you made the right decision.
